Monday, February 14, 2011

Happy Valentines Day

I think people who know my JB would agree he's a puzzle wrapped in an enigma covered in fur. But the tootsie roll center is pure estrogen. It's not that he's effeminate, not in demeanor. He just has a woman's brain. And heart. Maybe even gay men aren't immune to subconsciously looking for someone just like Mom.

He's a natural care taker (care giver?) who makes sure everyone who enters his circle of influence wants for nothing. He wears his heart on his sleeve. When he gets withdrawn, I know there's something bothering him. If he tells me "it's nothing" I know I'm in trouble for something. I don't push, I know it'll only be a matter of time.

When a sentence starts with "I have to tell you something..." or "Can I ask you a question?..." I cringe. The other day he was upset about something I did in a dream of his. He gets insecure if he thinks I don't find him attractive any more. And this always puzzles me, since I think I always make my feelings for him crystal clear.

But just to be sure, I'm going to make sure Valentine's day is properly observed.


  1. Your love is true and strong! True and strong!!!

  2. Aw . . . . Such a nice, sweet post. Make sure you go all out for JB. Candies, flowers (roses or tulips), a nice dinner.

  3. You have described him perfectly. I wish I had as much estrogen as he.
    I just wish you would stop doing crappy things in his dreams because we all love it when he is happy. Now I'M angry at you!-:)